Inspiration for this book, Not Funny, Harvey! is from both observing our society and watching wildlife, particularly javelina, in our yard. There seemed to be one “guy” who was always alone. Was he booted from the clan? Was he just too obnoxious to play with others? His presence made me consider more how humans interact with one another. How do kids learn to make friends, especially with all the uproar of our society, all the technology taking up their time and the safety restrictions about where they can go and what they can do.  And, of course, a story evolved and a lesson was there somewhere, too.
 
Humans are, in general, social and often, funny. We tease as a way to bond with others. But, when that gets out of hand, it is a form of bullying. 
 
We are not born with an innate understanding of teasing… although an 18-month-old does begin to realize it and giggles. How do we learn to tease, to joke, to play pranks? How do we learn when it is too much? What should kids know about teasing behaviors?
 
Every adult who is around children, has influence on them. Adults play a huge part in modeling behaviors and sharing thoughts that children will take into adulthood. But, ideas can change and do evolve as society changes and a person grows. We must provide a strong foundation in so very many areas.

The information provided in this book and on this site is merely a guide for adults to pursue and engage in conversations and activities with children about teasing, joking, and playing pranks. Adults may choose to discuss forms of bullying so children can recognize it in themselves and others.  
 
The theme of this story is about the appropriate behaviors to use when trying to make friends. It is more about showing kindness to others, but being funny is wonderful, too! One of the main points adults can take away is when talking to kids about all of this, help them understand the feelings related to teasing. 
 
Kids can think about...      

• How they feel when they tease someone? 

• How they feel when they are teased by someone?  

• Whether they recognize the difference between teasing and bullying?

• How they think others feel when they are the subject of either?  

• How they can best learn to make friends in our current society?

          
           KIDS are wise.
          KIDS can adjust to be better. 
          KIDS are the key to the world status! 

                     Harvey was created to help kids ponder how they can find ways to be a friend,

                                              to be funny, and to be kind all at the same time.